BDSM Or Not To BDSM?
, by Tiara Hutson-Weaver, 1 min reading time
We all think about spicing up our sex life at least once in our lifetime. Whether it may be adding an additional person, buying new sex toys, or simply diving into the different realms of sexual exploration, this is an imperative part of one’s growth in sexuality.
We all think about spicing up our sex life at least once in our lifetime. Whether it may be adding an additional person, buying new sex toys, or simply diving into the different realms of sexual exploration, this is an imperative part of one’s growth in sexuality.
One of the most common approaches to satisfying that sexual desire is by introducing BDSM into one’s bedroom. Curious in regards to what BDSM is? Let’s take a dive into BDSM and all of the things that can help one navigate through it safely while still enjoying its benefits in its entirety.
BDSM is a term utilized to refer to sexual practices that may involve restraints, granting or relinquishing control, and pain infliction. Sounds like fun right? While BDSM may initially seem overwhelming, if it is done right, it can satisfy all of the sensations in your body that will create an enjoyable experience. Just think, can you really have pleasure without a little pain?
Safety is imperative in all sexual activities but due to some of the practices in BDSM it is imperative to have a healthy line of communication with one’s partner before initiating. “Safe words” are commonly created between partners to ensure that the line between satisfaction and unsafe behaviors are not compromised. It is imperative that both parties not only feel safe before participating in BDSM but also comfortable in their roles.
Do not be afraid to ask questions or research further if you are unsure or even want to gain more knowledge about BDSM. Local adult stores, online adult stores, and blogs such as Kinky Blogs provide tons of resources to help one feel secure beforehand. Once again, make sure to have an open line of communication with your partner to ensure both parties desires, wants, and needs are being fulfilled. Take the initiative and go add the FREAK back into your bedroom. Or better yet, add the KINK back between your sheets.
Have a Freaky Kinky Day💛
